When things don’t go your way, it is the Universe trying to spit you out of the limitations of linear illusion. When you lament, complain, and regret, you tell the Universe that you do not want such freedom. So it will snap you back into the security of your cage. When you can be grateful, regardless of what comes, you tell the Universe that you are able to handle life outside of the cage of human conditioning.
You will receive more and more opportunities to expound. Through the lens of a linear view, it can look very scary. But through the eyes of soul, it is pure adventure and freedom. When we slip out of the physical body when it wears out, it can be either really scary, or very freeing. We choose, depending on how we handle our daily affairs.