Be a little leery of giving unconditionally and so openly to anyone who may still have taker energy. Not saying we should not give. But do so in the abstract way, for all of life and not for the appreciation of one person. We do things that make us feel good until they don’t. Sometimes it is not worth giving away a little piece of ourselves for the rush of an ego stroke. I know it sounds like a contradiction but there is an art to giving absolutely all of yourself while not losing any of your essence.