In a very abstract way, it is easy to understand why people hate. The feelings off love and hate register as the opposite of what they really are. The feeling of hate seems to fill one up. The feeling of love to the novice seems to bring a feeling of expansion; which the human consciousness can register as emptiness.
That is why people, have a hard time being immersed in love. It is because when they get close, their feelings betray them into thinking they are getting farther away from the goal. The heart and mind become great means of sabotage for the soul.
This is true in the experiences of being at peace, and the bliss of Lovers. It is difficult for the blissful lovers to stay in that place unless they are very wise. The human consciousness registers the bliss as boring. The lover’s will start to find fault with it. They will accuse the other of not trying hard enough because the high of being in love inevitably wears off. That is why it takes an experienced pair to stay in love. It is helpful to have a lot of failure in relationships as a backdrop to the understanding to how subtle love is. That way the human consciousness can recognize love when it experiences it and is well aware of this mechanism that pulls one away from the love.
Contentment is the same way. Contentment must be held relevant with gratitude or the human consciousness will equivocate it with boredom. The emotions like to have something to gnaw upon. The mental aspect of a person likes to have a puzzle to entertain itself. That is why so many people get caught up in the drama of emotions or get caught up in the haughty world of debate and arguing. This is merely entertainment for an unfulfilled life. Only an experienced soul is wise enough to register the uneventful experience of maintained contentment for what it is.
The closer people get to fulfilling their true goal of being immersed in love, the more the lower aspects of themselves; the mind and the emotions; will resist. Look at how many people lament about being alone. It is in this state of being lonely that one finds fullness. Yet instead of accepting this, the individual will obsess over why life is punishing them or get caught up in the drama of wanting love in the form of another person. They work against the Universe to fill themselves up. The Universe is moving them steadily and completely to the awakening of absolute love, and they are fighting it the whole time.
It is the people who have been inundated with pain that forgo the need for more experiences. They have been so wore down by fervently doggy paddling through life that they welcome the respite. It is when they welcome the lack of seemingly outer experiences and have gratitude for the calm, that they are aligned perfectly with the advancement of their own awakening.
Gratitude is an opening of the aperture of the heart chakra. When the person is more empty of the heavy experiences that life inundates them with AND meets that with an open heart, THEN they are primed to awaken to the fullness of divine love. It is a formula process. That is why the more people fight the emptying out of the heavy experiences of drama and debate, the more they fight their own advancement. Those who resolve themselves to the process and look for ways to be grateful are the ones who succeed to enlightenment.
Humanity as a whole is going that route. That is why I am compelled to explain the process. That is why many of you will be able to grasp what I am conveying and see how you have or have not applied it to your own life. Some of you may have experienced enlightenment and not realized what has transpired.
Do you see now why I don’t tolerate sympathy and complaints? They are just filling people with the opposite of being fulfilled with love. When people come to me and want to cry about how unsatisfying their life is, it is the purging out the experiences with tears that is more helpful than kicking up new feelings and thoughts by lamenting the anguish they have endured. They can do the former more readily alone. My condolences may be a crutch or a distraction from the ultimate goal of awakening. This is what the multitudes are doing to each other is their misguided attempts to be helpful. They are feeling an ego while starving the soul.
When one is truly empty of all the emotional and mental dross, the dregs of experiences are expelled in one last purge. This is what enlightenment is. After the human consciousness in expelled of everything that it identified with, it is suspended in a moment of nothingness. This is where the alpha and the omega meet, the macrocosm and the microcosm converge, or where one meets themselves. This is where enlightenment, nirvana or self-realization happens. It is a real tangible experience and carries perimeters.
Once the human consciousness is emptied of everything it thought filled them, then it can align with Universal understanding. It can then register the emptiness of human experience as the fullness of love. The individual is now changed. They see great love in small exchanges of being kind to others, interacting with animals or communing with nature.
They no longer feel drawn to drama and demonstrative thought processes and may even have an aversion to them. They easily see the true motives and intentions of others. Those who seem the most complete to outer perceptions, are the ones that are empty in the true sense and those who seem lost and invisible are closer to the advancement of great spiritual heights.