Truth, Individuality, Empowerment and You

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Truth is a form of tapping into direct knowing which is nothing like an opinion. An opinion is a warped twisted fact that is birthed from an agenda and driven by the ego. Direct knowing is the vibration of love. Because love and truth vibrate at similar frequencies. Most things people share are opinions. Truth has no agenda except to free people of the ego.
 
Those who tap into direct knowing have no desire to defend truth. They understand that some are privy to it and some are not. Those who appreciate truth will use that truth as a coordinates to tap into direct knowing for themselves. There is no need to stuff the brain with facts and figures when you are tapped into truth. Because all you need to do is ask a question and you have a direct line to the answer.
 
Doing this frees your energy up of needing to seem smart or proving that you know it all. A wise person does not need to lord information over others. They do not debate to engage in “one-upping” others. They share because they sincerely wish others to be free to engage in truth as well. There is no hierarchy in truth sharing. There is only a pass and fail perhaps. Those who lord information over others to feel superior are not passing.
 
They may not even recognize this in themselves because it is so subtle. But there are subtle signs that feel diminishing. One clue is using pet names to address others that depicts superiority. Another one is the feeling of inferior or insecurity that accompanies engaging them. Even a sense that person is more advanced than you.
 
Thinking someone is more gifted than you or more advanced is a cop-out. It is a way of ascribing them with an advantage that you don’t have as a way of preventing yourself from even trying to expound out of the scope of average. We all have super powers in a sense. It is a matter of tapping into our own worth and having the courage to show our abilities to others. So what if they don’t see them at first. The growth is for ourselves and how to express incredible love and gratitude for the experience of interaction. The joy of this makes all other trinkets of accomplishments pale in comparison.
 
Jen Ward

How to Live Your Purpose

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This is a question that gets asked a lot. People make it more complicated than it needs to be. Knowing your purpose isn’t revealed by adding more to the equation; like income or accolades. It is by stripping every thing down to what you are compelled to do.
 
Usually we have the raw materials around us in living our purpose. For example someone who lives in a land locked area would not easily be a sea captain. It can happen but usually the Universe will be more realistic. Some of the greatest influences in sports, the arts and humanities, were introduced to their craft at a very young age.
 
Here is some help. Remove the fear of failing. Remove the need to make a living. Take away all diminishing thoughts of unworthiness. Take away playing it safe or having a plan B. Evaporate all the wants and hopes of your parents or spouse. Ask yourself the following questions:
 
What are you naturally good at?
What are you compelled to do?
What would you still do even if you were a millionaire?
Who/what do you love?
What would you be doing if you didn’t care about what others thought?
 
Since living our purpose is such a dynamic concept, we make it overwhelming in our minds. It is in actuality as simple as doing what we love to do and doing it without fear or interference. The more we do what we love, the more the Universe will make it part of our mainstay. It will get to the point where our purpose is really about being in a loving center and pouring that out into the world on a continuous basis.
 
Here are some taps to assist:
(say each statement 3 times while tapping on the top of your head and say it a 4th time while tapping on the chest)
 
“I release the fear of living my purpose; in all moments”
“I release being derailed from living my purpose; in all moments”
“I release confusing living my purpose with accumulating money; in all moments”
“I release living the dream of someone else; in all moments”
“I make space in this world to live my purpose; in all moments”
“I remove all blockages to living my purpose; in all moments”
“I stretch my capacity to Live my purpose; in all moments”
“I exude Living my Purpose; in all moments”
“I Am centered and empowered in Living my Purpose; in all moments”
“I resonate and emanate and am interconnected with all life in Living my Purpose; in all moments

When the Noisy World Disturbs You

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The trees are absorbing sound for you. That is what they do. The more appreciation you give the trees around you, the more they will be able to help. Houseplants can absorb the sound from inside and even planting more trees or foliage outside help. It is the intention that will do it.
 
Your personal frequency is very high so the negative noises and interactions are there to balance yours. The cars in a sense, are driving by to mess with you. Not in an intentional way but a random way. You may already get a sense of this. It is true. The more you can accept that the world wants to vibrate with the resonance of you, the more you will stop feeling like a victim of the noise.
 
That is important because feeling like a victim closes down your energy and then you are not as comfortable in you bliss. So if you can counter the noises with gratitude that others are desperately seeking what you have, you can keep your energy open. Because gratitude opens up the chakras. In that way, you will be gifting all around you, the ability to match your resonance. That is very healing for the planet and for humanity.

AWAKEN or Renew Your Love

 

(Put your partner, parent, child, or pet’s name in all the spaces. Do all these for one subject at a time. Say each statement 3 times out loud while CONTINUOUSLY tapping on the top of your head at the crown chakra and say it a fourth time while tapping on your chest at the heart chakra)

“I release being annoyed with ___________ out of habit; in all moments”
“I release feeling dependent on ____________; in all moments”
“I release feeling beholden to ___________ ; in all moments”
“I release being enslaved to ___________; in all moments”
“I recant all vows and agreements between myself and __________; in all moments”
“I remove all curses between myself and __________; in all moments”
“I sever all strings and cords between myself and __________; in all moments”
“I dissolve all karmic ties between myself and __________; in all moments”
“I remove all the pain, burden, limitations and engrams that _________ has put on me; in all moments”
“I remove all the pain, burden, limitations and engrams that I have put on ___________; in all moments”
“I take back all the Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom, Health, Success, Security, Companionship, Creativity, Peace, Life, Wholeness, Beauty, Enthusiasm, Contentment, Spirituality, Enlightenment and Confidence that ____________ has taken from me; in all moments”
“I give back all that I have taken from ____________; in all moments”
“I withdraw all my energy from arguing with ____________’: in all moments”
“I release resonating with arguing with ______________; in all moments”
“I release emanating with arguing with______________; in all moments”
“I remove all of arguing with _____________ from my sound frequency; in all moments”
“I remove all of arguing with_____________ from my light body; in all moments”
“I shift my paradigm from arguing with __________ to Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom, Health, Success, Security, Companionship, Creativity, Peace, Life, Wholeness, Beauty, Enthusiasm, Contentment, Spirituality, Enlightenment and Confidence; in all moments”
“I strip all illusion off of arguing with ___________; in all moments”
“I transcend ____________; in all moments”
“I repair and fortify the Wei Chi on all my bodies; in all moments”
“I align all my bodies; in all moments”
“I am centered and empowered in divine love; in all moments”
“I make space in this world to Truly Understand ___________: in all moments”
“I remove all blockages to truly Understand ______________; in all moments”
“I stretch my capacity to truly Understand________________; in all moments”
“I stretch my capacity to embrace truly understanding ______________; in all moments”

When Someone Crosses Over

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When someone crosses over, they really don’t go anywhere. They slip off the vibration of their physical skin and are still present in more subtle vibrations. There are Universes encapsulated in each moment and without the coarse vibration of the physicality, loved ones who cross over are free to experience the beauty of subtle realms.

But they aren’t lost to you. They just don’t have the coarse senses any more to communicate with you. It is up to you to hone your subtle senses so tat you can communicate with them. It doesn’t have to be mysterious or creepy. It can be as sweet and beautiful as sensing them in the subtle breeze, hearing their pet phrase fall from the lips of another or hear a sweet song that always reminded you of them.

The belief that they are lost to you forever is what loses you to them. Crossing doesn’t have to be so drastic and harsh.Those whose loved ones stay in tuned with them after they have crossed and are loving and supportive are the ones that feel like they have won the lottery. It is literally the best of both worlds.

What causes the separation is the emotional devastation that some get entrenched in. It creates a schism in the relationship and interferes wit the connection. The opposite is true. Well wishes and intentions create a healthy relationship across the border of this world and the next.

“I accept _______’s crossing in all moments”
“I release using _______ passing to get attention; in all moments”
“I release creating drama around ________’s crossing; in all moments”
“I release shutting down to _______’s love; in all moments”
“I release associating _________ with sadness instead of love; in all moments”
“I remove all the trauma and engrams of _________’s crossing; in all moments”
“I dry up all the drama and negativity others try to put on ________’s crossing; in all moments”
“I dissipate all ignorance in regards to ________’s crossing; in all moments”
“I heal all in wound and between myself and ________; in all moments
“I accept __________’s love in every form; in all moments”
“I release saddling ___________ with grief in all moments
“I release disconnecting from ________ because they have passed”
“I release withdrawing my love from ________in all moments”
“I shift my paradigm from sadness to gratitude; in all moments”
“I send love, enthusiasm and gratitude to _________’ in all moments”
“I release all the grief that creates a separation between myself and __________; in all moments”
“I am centered and empowered in divine love for ________; in all moments”
“I resonate, emanate and am interconnected with __________ in divine love; in all moments”

What a Retreat

 

From Lara:

I am overflowing with experiences from the retreat! For one I was in the car and I noticed how when I picked up my oldest daughter from school today I felt myself tighten in my body asking her about her day and what she worked on and noticing in subtle energy how she was feeling oppressed. So we did some taps right then in there after having a dialogue about not letting grades define us.

She is 10 and has been in Montessori her whole life with no grades. Only love of learning. and I told her soon she would get “grades” and to NEVER let them define her. That as a small child I would get an A and feel superior, and then I might get a D and feel so bad about myself. And I was so pummeled by the winds of censure and praise. Jen Ward mentioned this;  the competitiveness and sibling rivalry. This is what linear 3 D does to us to perpetuate enslaving each other. It tells us we are unworthy unless…

I told my eldest daughter NEVER to let grades define her. to simply find what she loved doing in life regardless of what others think and how they view her, and take joy in it. It helped me realize how hard I had been on her. And then I felt inspired to have her do the tap:  “I release letting grades define me, in all moments.” And a couple more taps about knowing who we are and not letting anyone define us ever.  Also taps on others telling us who we are, judging us, and subjugating us.

I told her how her father is a genius and so successful at his job that he loves and adores and is inspired by everyday.  Yet he got D’s and kicked out of school and told he was less than enough, a trouble maker. I told her how some straight A students who do all the “right things” in conformity and go to the best schools, but leave having no idea who they are, what they want to do, and what brings them true purpose and joy.

This helped free her so much. I could feel her empowering as we talked and we did the home-spun intuition taps.

Jen is teaching me to perceive what my daughters need so I don’t perpetuate oppression. The same that had me feeling so unworthy all my life. I love you Jen Ward. This is so major I can’t even fathom from just the weekend how much I absorbed!!! AND birdies and trees talked to me today. I could feel what they were saying and felt life all around and just how not alone we are. What a retreat!!!!!!

Healing the Wounded Sexuality

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Recently I facilitated a session with a new client. She had no idea what to expect from a session and I never know what a session is going to reveal.
I can tell a lot by a person’s voice. Their sound frequency reveals so much. She seemed real open but there was a block like a huge brick wall between herself and her heart.

I perceived past live scenarios of her in a cult. The leader was really dynamic and larger than life. He was treated like a god by the members. She was a young girl and brought to his bed way too early in life. It was supposed to be an honor so it set up a strange dichotomy in her in regards to sex.

She validated that she had sexual issues in this life that even her most patient husband could not help her get past.

In that past life, The leader would use her as a prop to teach young boys how to enjoy a woman. It was merely a thinly disguised demonstration to put the young girl in a degrading position. It thrilled him to do this. He pulled on one of her nipples in front of the boys to show them how the texture changed when it was touched. He instructed her to lay back and pulled back one of her labia to instruct the young boys how to enter her.

He invited them all to come touch her and encouraged then to poke inside her with their young fingers. She was instructed to feel honored in being chose and yet the humiliation was inevitable. This is the dichotomy that was playing out in her present life and preventing her from enjoying her husband. Without her having to ever mention anything. Releasing her dynamics with the cult leader; and the following taps are what we released during her session.

Say each statement 3 times out loud while tapping on your head and say it a 4th time while tapping on your chest

“I release the trauma of being physically raped; in all moments”
“I release the trauma of being emotionally raped; in all moments”
“I release the trauma of being mentally raped; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex for power; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex for submission; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex for danger; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex for fear; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex for hate; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex for poverty; in all moments”
“I release selling sex for money; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex for manipulation; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex for slavery; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex for domination; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex for evil; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex for shame; in all moments”
“I release storing shame in my body, in all moments”
“I release being ashamed of myself; in all moments”
“I release making love to power; in all moments”
“I release confusing power for love in all moments”
“I release defining sex as shameful in all moments”
“I release defining sex as a sin; in all moments”
“I release using sex to feel worthy; in all moments”
“I release using sex to feel loved; in all moments”
“I release using sex to feel safe; in all moments”
“I release using sex to wield power; in all moments”
“I release associating pain with sex; in all moments”
“I release associating fear with sex; in all moments”
“I release confusing sex with devotion; in all moments”
“I release needing to give sex to prove loyalty; in all moments”
“I release confusing love making with rape; in all moments”
“i release the belief that sex is anything but loving and wonderful; in all moments”
“I recant all vows and agreements between myself and sex; in all moments”
“I remove all curses between myself and sex; in all moments”
“I sever all strings and cords between myself and sex; in all moments”
“I dissolve all karmic ties between myself and sex; in all moments”
“I remove all the pain, fear, shame, burdens, limitations and engrams that sex has put on me; in all moments”
“I take back all the Dignity, Joy, Love, Abundance, Freedom, Health Success, Security, Companionship, Peace, Life, Wholeness, Beauty, Enthusiasm, Contentment, Spirituality, Enlightenment and Confidence that sex has taken from me, in all moments”
“I release all sexual perversion; in all moments”
“I remove all masks, walls and armor between myself and Intimate, Joyful, Trusting Love making; in all moments”
“I infuse Joy, Love, intimacy, trust and play into the sexual act; in all moments”
“I am centered and empowered in Joyful, Intimate,Trusting Love Making; in all moments”

After we released these issues, I encouraged her to surprise her husband in a sexy outfit. She said she wore them early in their relationship to keep him interested. I pointed out that she was using them as a form of manipulation. So now, wear the outfits as a gift for her husband and that will be shifting the experience to one of love.

Also, I told her to use the water based markers and have her and her husband write on each other. I told her to allow him to write on all the parts that she felt shame in the past. By doing this he will be replacing the old experiences with love. She was to do the same to the parts of his body she felt shame to touch. It is a conscious way to replace the old reactions with love. Then of course to shower together in play.

She was happy to do this exercise. I think in doing so, we have made a believer out of her husband, of the energy work.